As an introvert, being socially outgoing is probably not your idea of a good time. Chances are, this is even more true when it comes to approaching beautiful women. No matter how badly you might want to ask out that pretty girl at the bar, nerves can get the best of you. But, the good news is, this is something you can work on improving. Even as an introvert, you too can ask out the girl of your dreams and get the dating life of your dreams with these tips.
As you work up the courage to ask her out, you’ll find that working on your confidence will be a gamechanger. One great way to do this is to learn from the experts, like those at PUATraining. Their resources will help you with tips and advice on sex, dating, and even ways to reduce your anxiety around beautiful women. With these tools and advice in mind, you’ll be prepared and ready for that all-important “setting the date” conversation—and for when things get more serious.
I know, I know, you’re nervous about talking to her in the first place. That’s okay. But easing your way into the conversation more gradually can help you feel more comfortable talking to the girl you’re interested in and even set the stage for a relationship. After all, there are lots of similarities between starting a friendship and the early stages of a relationship. By getting to know her at least a bit before asking her out, which will give you a leg up with conversation topics and inside jokes to develop over time. If you discover she’s an introvert too, for example, it might be less pressure on both of you to chat predominantly over text initially.
You aren’t already dating your Dream Girl, so who’s to say you can’t have some fun? Sign up for a dating app (or a few) to get in some extra practice and put some of what you’ve learned to good use. If your heart is set on ultimately asking out that one ideal woman in your life, consider opting for a site focused more on hookups than lifelong matches. Read through some adult dating reviews to find the service that best fits your needs. Be safe and have fun—and be sure to remember what works well for you along the way.
For your first date especially, it will help if you arrange something that won’t add any undue pressure to an already stressful situation. Do some research into introvert-friendly first dates, like hitting up a local bookshop/café or stargazing. Suggest a place you’ve been to (or, even better, that you’re both familiar with) so that you’ll be somewhere that’s familiar and comforting. They’ll be touched that you came up with something so thoughtful, and you’ll be more relaxed.
No matter how much research you do or practice dates you go on, you’ll eventually need to actually do the asking her out bit. Is it possible that you could prepare extensively and still be turned down? Sure. If that happens, know that she just wasn’t the right girl for you. There are plenty more out there and you’ll find them—and you’ll be more prepared than ever before to chat them up along the way. Better yet, though, you might hit the jackpot: she could very well say yes!
With these tips, you can be sure that no matter what the outcome, you’ll always be confident and ready to ask out a girl you’re interested in, even as an introvert.
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